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Casting of flowers into the Seine
Pont des Arts
Paris 2nd April 2003
We all met on the Bridge of the Artist ( Pont des Arts) - "The Head of the
French Department of the British Institute, teachers, class mates and Janine,
the lady who mothers all our students from the counter of the Institute
snack-bar, and Jerry charming girlfriend Maya we met there because it
was Jerry's favourite bridge. We did our best to celebrate Jerry's life,
with our fondest memories of him. We threw rose petals into the Seine
and remembered our curly headed friend Jerry with all our deepest love."
Mat's letter describing the scene:
"The scene on the Pont des Arts was moving. Here on a bridge over the Seine was virtually Jerry's whole year group, united by him. Only the man who made that feeling of solidarity possible wasn't there. The feeling of surreal disbelief that Jeremiah was dead hung heavily, but it was broken and accepted by the tribute paid to him by Anna, one of Jerry's best friend's in Paris. She told of the intelligent and philosophical man that we'd all known. Of how it was impossible not to have a deep conversation with him and of how he made the most of being in Paris. There on the Bridge of the Arts, we laughed through the tears, smiling as we remembered Jeremiah. It was typical and in some ways a tribute that Jerry's last act was the most wonderfully random yet. A group of us had talked about doing an anti-war protest in Paris, but when it was stopped all but Jeremiah let it go. Another friend Ed, told me that Jerry had said that he had to do something active.
But it seemed to be this constantly questioning nature that he had that drove him to be incisive in theatre lessons and to take an active, part in all that needed people like him. The word "rare" is applied to many people when something this tragic happens, but despite the cliché, Jeremiah actually was a rare type of person; he did the stuff that the rest of us talked about. It seems it is that that led him to the protest in Germany with someone who seemed, unlike us to be going in his direction and on his level. I suspect that he would have appreciated what was said about him on the Bridge that evening and proud that he had us gathered there; all together.
As the "Institute People" walk across Abbey Road tomorrow towards the synagogue for the funeral, we'll no doubt appreciate the gesture of walking across the mythic Beatles Road, done for Jeremiah Duggan. The journey through nearly two years in Paris to Abbey Road, and beyond to Highgate Cemetery has ended tragically, but never should we forget the place that Jeremiah held for so many people. The words of the song that Anna [played on the Pont des Arts still echo:
"Cause I got too much life, running through my veins to go to waste."
To Jeremiah . Thank you for sharing that life with us.
Anna's Speech: On the Pont des Arts. The Seine. Paris.
10th April 2003
"I've been talking to quite a few people over the past days, and everyone seems to have some really nice and funny memories about you.
I think the image you left in people's minds was exactly how you wanted it to be: intelligent, extremely funny, idealistic and slightly mysterious. Man you had style! Even the way you left us was so unique: going to Germany just like that, with people you hardly knew, Jerry only you could do something like that.
But this is so hard. You always were the first person I would call when something happened and now you're the only one I can't share this pain with. And you know how I always wanted to go to London, because I had never been to England, and we had been planning that trip together for ages; now it has to be your funeral.
"Ironic, isn't it?" you would say, and give me one of these little smiles of yours. I so want to light with you again Jerry. I miss you so much.
Though I know it would make you feel awkward to see me crying and talking like this. You always saw the comical side of everything. I want to tell these people that they shouldn't think what's appropriate and what's not in this situation, because Jerry hated everything that was fake and he loved everything that was out of the ordinary, and he always made people laugh, so please don't hesitate to remember him with joy.
And Jerry, I know there's never going to be anyone like you again, and right now it hurts so much, but I'm still very happy that I got to be your Friend."
From the class at the British Institute. 21 June. 2003.
Jeremiah Duggan was a prominent member of the second year class at the British Institute in Paris. Not only did he have many friends from inside the Institute, but also he met people outside the university context: he cared deeply for others and was liked by everyone who knew him.
Jeremiah was a conscientious and committed student who was progressing with his studies. His passion for learning again extended beyond the course at the Institute, for he enrolled in a second degree, studying English literature in French at the Sorbonne. Any class without Jeremiah would feel empty since he was one of the few students to ask questions during lectures. He was never afraid to voice his own opinion; he would constantly challenge ideas and his inquisitive nature led him to speak up during any discussion. As One of his classmates said, "Jeremiah never accepted anything he did not understand or agree with."
Along with people, Jeremiah loved Paris. His passion for all art forms made him a great match for this city. He was an active student, constantly trying new activities such as attending concerts, conferences or exhibitions. The Director of the British Institute stated, "Jeremiah made the very best out of his time here in Paris." One could accurately describe him as a well rounded, well informed, and generally enthusiastic person.
The balancing force of Jeremiah's intellect was undoubtedly his humour. Everyone who knew him has commented on what a fun, light-hearted person he was to be around. Therefore the tragedy of Jeremiah's death remains a shock to the community of the British Institute; its untimely nature and questionable circumstances are uncharacteristic for someone who so embodied life.
From Students of the British Institute in Paris.
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